If you know me, you know that I can be a bit of a “control-freak.” I’ve been working on it by focusing on letting go and having bigger faith… And let me tell you, it’s a PROCESS. Denying yourself, your desires, and your flesh, all the while submitting to God’s…

I think in some ways, humans naturally have tendencies to want to “serve” some kind of being, concept, or idea. Perhaps another way of looking at it is idolizing something. Through our servitude we hope to acquire something, often that thing is unconditional love that surpasses our imperfections, shortcomings, and…

I’m not sure how many personality complexes are out there, it’s hard to say, but I do know that there are 3 major ones that plague society. Meet the victim, the god, and the savior complex. Before we get started The whole point of doing all this research and writing a whole flipping blog…

A Long Road to Recovery About six months ago, I wrote a piece related to people-pleasing tendencies. I talked about how I had done self-reflection and was starting to understand why I was struggling with people-pleasing. I wrote that piece thinking that that was going to be the last time I’d talk about people-pleasing. …

Through all of this, personally, I've experienced a wave of emotions. I'm from Wisconsin, USA; We were one of the first states that took extreme measures to prevent the spread of the COVID-19 virus. …

I have been asking myself this question a lot lately. When life doesn’t go my way, I not only have anxiety because I lack control over certain events or situations in life, but I also stress over not obtaining or succeeding the goals and expectations I’ve set for myself. …

Here I am. Sitting on yet, another revelation, inspired by the external forces of talking with other humans (because having an external perspective is often imperative to instigate self-reflection). Something I’ve battled my whole life is low self-confidence and wavering self-esteem. I’m cautious when new things come to play in…

Ah, the world of social media. Our nightmare and best friend. We self-trained “social media gurus” and corporate marketing strategists preach about the endless possibilities with social media when it comes to our growing businesses and brands. …

I know I’m not the only one, and I’m likely not the most extreme case. But what started out as a realization at the beginning of this week that I have a Savior complex — trying to fix everyone else’s problems and pouring my “love” and devotion into people like…